Break even for All

Gender inequality has been an issue of great debate. The present scenario tells us that the time has changed and western culture has become popular in various parts of the world. It is good for some reason and a problem too. Talking about the most diverse nations like ours, Indian modern cities show a lower inequality based on the gender however if we go back travel to small villages the old tradition is still followed where the females are responsible for household work and the males are head of the family, the decision takers and also the earners of the green paper.

In the modern cities, where the females have started to compete with males has given rise to a new problem which is the growing difference of respect and household responsibilities between the generations. Since the females who earlier used to stay at home and do the household work have joined the work outside home, they expect that their mother-in-law and sister-in-law would handle the work at home which increases misunderstandings and spoil the relations. This is spreading like a disease and causes families to separate, making them nuclear from joint families. Washing clothes and other household work on daily basis is a tough job and women should be supported by men at all times.

Currently there are two scenarios existing in the society, one where people are so narrow minded that they don’t allow women to work outside the home, they don’t even consider education for girls important at all and want them to learn household work and get married as soon as possible. The second situation is when the girls have got proper education and they demand of doing a job and society allows them but then born are social issues like dependency of younger generation on the older one for all sorts of small household work.

If we deeply think about both of them then we can understand that both of them are dangerous for growth and humanity.Things would be alleviated when every younger generation would feel responsibility to complete their own tasks, that day we would understand the importance of each other’s life and that would be irrespective of gender to make this world better and a peaceful place to live life. I hope you all; my readers would understand the motto of me writing this and help me by joining the hands together to elevate the level of humanity in this world. I wish male population may become more sensitive and help their wife in completing the household chores.

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Equal Work for All

In this modern world, both men and women are considered at par with each other. Women have been increasingly stepping into men’s fields and work areas, while men have also started to take work at home and raising kids as their field of expertise in the new modern western world. The notion that men work outside and women work inside the homes is getting blurred day by day. But still the situation is far from being satisfactory especially in the Asian countries, where children especially those in their pre-teens are still dependent on their mothers and sisters to help them through their daily chores. They are still fed by their mothers and not by their fathers.

We are still into the habit of depending on our family members. Children usually call their mother first and father later when they need help. Since the birth of the child, it is mostly the mother who is taking the responsibility of the child, to make him or her grow up and to nurture him or her well.Laundry is not just a woman work but men should also wash off their clothes or help their partner in it.Males at least get a day off in the week, but a mother’s or a household wife’s duty is without any break even if she is ill or even too tired to get up, she will be walking away to the kitchen to ensure her kids and her husband don’t go hungry to school and work. All of this hurts to see when no one realizes the effort put in by the lady of the house. From getting up first in the morning to sleeping the last, late at night, she is the one ensuring everything is done properly in the house.

We all should help our mothers and sisters in the household work, to reduce the load and burden on them. We should respect their contribution to the running of the household, as without their contribution everything in the house will just be in a deep mess and no one will be able to function properly. When efforts are recognized and appreciated then everyone feels respected and worthy and one gets motivated to do the work more effectively. The males should also help whenever possible and they should also devote their free time in-house hold activities to share the responsibilities of the females. It doesn’t make one less manly if they do house hold work instead it increases the respect for a person by seeing the respect and appreciation he has for his wife and her work and contribution towards the family.

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Magic Moments

I am very happy and feel glad in life due to my wife who build my confidence and taught me to stay happy and be friendly. She has gone out of the way with her idea to make our marriage anniversary special every time. She has given me beautiful memories and acknowledged my ideas and appreciated them always. She loves to listen to my boring lectures and still have a smile on her face. She never complains or insists me to take her to shopping. It is her nature and simplicity which attracts me to her and makes her an idol wife. Her moral and trust on me makes our bonding more special. Right from the day when my wife has entered in my life, she has changed all the things and brings immense pleasant and everlasting joy in life. She has taken care of home responsibilities and provided support to me by giving me mental and physical satisfaction. We give respect to both and this is the way to a fruitful and happy long-lasting relationship.

I want to share with you secret recipe of our love and happy life. We usually keep the music on and start dancing on latest Hindi songs whenever situation permits. We are not at all shy and love to perform in family gathering and close social functions. Then my wife is good in copying the voice of various actors and she really help in relaxing me when I come from office. Her melodious voice and her speaking style helps me unwind and stay cool even in pressure situations. She helps me in office work by arranging the files and keeping them in organized way. Our mantra is to keep the professional and personal life separate and this is the key to success of our marriage in life. There is no outside interference and we try to keep our problems and issues within our self and try not to involve anyone.

I love to take her on long drives and visit to nearby travel destinations whenever I get some time or holiday break. Our love chemistry is so solid and like a movie story. We like to fell into some argument on small things and then do not talk to each other for some time and then we try to come back to each other and hug each other. This is a normal because we are still humans and such things happen. But the ultimate thing is that we stay together and live together.

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Living with Love

A husband-wife relationship is a very important bond in life. I feel that a relationship should be felt from the heart such that a person`s action reveals the truth about his feelings towards that other person. There are many relationship`s in the world that every human needs to follow but one of the important relationship is that of marriage. This is one of the most beautiful relationship as well as also the most complicated one where two different souls from different background fell in love with each other and live together for the whole life.

I consider my wife as super magician is many ways as she can understand more about me than anyone else in life. Today I would like to reveal my story that sleeping in darkness was a big challenge for me. It was my wife who came to rescue me and guided me to overcome this fear. She would sing a song for me and hold my hand. Further she would try to divert my attention and gave me strength and self belief so that I can get rid of these fears. It was due to her effort only that slowly and steadily my fear of darkness got less and then one day I got rid of it completely. All this happened due to her closeness and love. She diverted my attention to relive my stress and this in turn made our relationship stronger and healthier. Even when I think of it today, I sometime burst out of laughter.

It is so true that life gets totally changed after getting married. My wife was complete stranger to me and it is worth appreciating the phase that she adjusted to our living style and accepted me and my family. She is the one who takes care of my parents and take smart actions to alleviate the situation when misunderstandings take place. She has given me so much space and dedicated her life for me. I cannot pay it back but all this is due our trust and love for each other. I enjoy her company very much and we have so much fun and laughing moments during the weekends. I try to speak up in broken English language and ignore the right way just to see her smiling face. It gives me so much satisfaction when she is happy. I like the way she corrects me up and talk to me. This valentine I want to make it more special by gifting her video cd of her favourite comedy film and make it memorable experience by dining out in some luxury hotel.

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Baby #SoftestForBabySkin

Babies need hand massage and we should follow his baby cues like the time he is fresh or the time before his nap. Massaging regularly also leads to developing of proper child’s routine and parents can also give time to the baby. With the increasing dirt and pollution nowadays it has become very difficult for the people to maintain their external looks to look great without using external industrially generated products. Also sunlight plays a devastating role in worsening the conditions as long time exposure to sunlight also causes tanning to the skin. These conditions also create a big problem for the baby. Babies need to have bath on daily basis but I would suggest you to take lukewarm water and use it to particularly wash your face, fingers and toes and baby soap must be used in all conditions. I have heard that normal soap may contain petrochemical ingredients which increase the dryness of the skin in the babies. Shampoos and hair conditioner should be used for baby hair care and instead home remedies like washing hairs and scalp with curd twice a week should be practiced. This helps in healing the scalp so that hairs can have a tight grip to it and prevent fair fall. It also acted like a homemade conditioner too.

Sunscreen creams are very important to guard the baby skin against the intense burning rays of the sun. These help the skin from getting exposed to the sunlight which can cause burning of skin and its long exposure can also lead to tanning of the skin, i.e. the skin starts reducing its skin tone and becomes darker, this process increases with more exposure to sunlight. But I advise to all parents to consult a doctor before using the sunscreen or any other lotion. We should also carry extra pair of diaper and wipes at all times and change it frequently as the situation demands. If diaper is wet for long time, then in such cases baby may start crying a lot and may get disturbed. Babies have to be given food which is not too much spicy or hot and as per the dietitian.Baby eyes may get affected if they are prone to see television or mobile phone for longer hours. Their skin may get dark and eyes may get weaker in such conditions. All wireless devices and technology products should be kept at a distance as radiations may harm the baby skin.

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5 points for baby skin

In this blog, I want to share my opinion about things that must be done to take care of baby skin.

Baby dressing and clothes must be light weight and pure cotton material. It must not hurt the skin and make the baby uncomfortable. It must be of right size and light color.Babies health and food is interrelated. Babies need a healthy diet consisting of food which gives the energy and act as catalyst indirectly with the skin. Babies have a gentle and delicate skin and we should massage their body with proper care and at the time which suites them not to the parents. For this one should also consult to a doctor as he can give the proper prescription by examining the body of baby that what oil should be good for him and which part should be taken care of the most as all of us have different body metabolism. Massaging could help in proper body development that have a long lasting effect on our whole life like that of brain development, blood regulation, proper digestion and many more. Moreover using the right oil product is equally important and usage of oil enriched with Almond, coconut and olive etc helps in better skin and body care of babies.

Babies need love and affection all the time and they must not be left under responsibility of maid. Uneducated worker or maid may not know everything about the baby skin and may use any soap and gel for bathing the baby and washing him. This can be injurious to baby health and skin. We should also make it certain to use baby bath is done with lukewarm water and no chemicals are used at any point. Baby diapers are changed 2-3 times in one day and body is cleaned with the cotton cloth. Hands are being washed so that baby skin does not come in contact with bacteria and germs from other people. Babies do not eat toys or solid material things at any cost and baby are under constant surveillance. Baby is kept in clean room with no dirt or dust around him which can be harmful to baby immune system.

Baby should be kept away from kitchen area or where temperature variation is too much high or low as baby skin is very sensitive to changes in the room temperature. We all must have patience while dealing with baby skin problems and should not use anything without consulting the doctor as it may further harm the skin.

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Baby Health with Massage oil

One day my mother woke up early in the morning and said me to get ready quickly as we have to rush to the hospital. On inquiring what is going on? She told me that my cousin Bhumika who is 2 years old baby had some issue with her leg. While going to the hospital in the car I asked my dad that how could due to such small strains and stress our bodies bone get broke up and are they really that soft or else there is another reason. He smiled and told me that son it’s only because of lack of care and proper massage at the premature stage of one’s life. 

Getting confused to his answer I further requested him to elaborate. He said that as it is require to lay a proper foundation before a building is built it is also necessary to take care of the child in the premature state. As it is the stage of life when one is like a parasite, he should be given proper living conditions to develop himself and that can be only done by the parents only. My father further explained me that the thing every parent should take care of is massaging their baby regularly and properly. Looking amazed to my father’s response he further elaborated to me by giving an example that like a machine requires proper oiling for long run, same is the case of human body.

He told me that nowadays parents used to massage their baby as fast as possible as to save their time. This could be harmful to their babies. As babies have a gentle and delicate skin we should massage their body with proper care and at the time which suites them not to the parents. For this one should also consult to a doctor as he can give the proper prescription by examining the body of baby that what oil should be good for him and which part should be taken care of the most as all of us have different body metabolism. Massaging could help in proper body development that have a long lasting effect on our whole life like that of brain development, blood regulation, proper digestion and many more.Moreover using the right oil product is equally important and usage of oil enriched with Almond,cocunut and olive etc helps in better skin and body care of babies.

Through my whole conversation with my father I came to realize about the importance of massaging in premature and how much things we have to take care of while doing it. I think the experience I gained from my father will help all of you who are reading this.

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Massage as First Expert

Having a baby is one of the best moments in our life. When our baby comes in our life he changes all the things and brings immense pleasant and everlasting joy in our life. But also with them comes the great responsibilities to a parent is to provide him the ease to develop his mental and physical strength. In the premature age parents can only do little things with their babies to help them to develop and among them the most important thing is to massage their baby body with full concern.

Massage is one of the pre historic methods done by the parents to up bring their child. Massage oil plays crucial role as it become very difficult to massage the infant’s body as it is very delicate and also it would create a condition of unease for the little one. Nowadays problem usually arises is, what oil should be good for this purpose as every parent want the best for his child. My answer to this is very simple the one which suites most to the skin of the baby but please make sure to have the oil which have almond and olive drops in it as a source. Usually people use any oil for the massage without knowing that it could be harmful for their child as he could be prone to allergies and many other diseases. Parents should talk to child while giving massage as it helps the baby to identify voice also. The parents should keep in touch with a specialist for the purpose who can suggest them the proper oil is possible. The key point in any massage oil is the main source of oil and to see if the oil has the proper things which can help in bones formation and help to keep the skin healthy. Almond and Olives are known for its amazing properties which can help to make skin healthy and fair. 

Also it is necessary to properly massage the body, through this I meant to say that while giving massage a baby one should pay full attention to that. For the first few times massage only the legs as these are the best part to be get start as babies are use to towards the sensation there because of the nappy changing purposes. At last I want to add that one should follow his baby cues like the time he is fresh or the time before his nap. Massaging regularly also leads to developing of proper child’s routine and parents can also give time to the baby.

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Freshen up with Allu Arjun dance moves

Today I want to share with you my story where Allu Arjun and Anushka both who are well known for their dance and music abilities helped me to overcome a tough situation in my life and provided me a breakthrough and get back me on track in family life and improving bonding in my relationship.I was shy even after marriage and today I want to talk about my worst fear in life and how I overcome over them and how my wife and Allu Arjun videos has always been cause of getting rid of my fear. Honestly dancing was a big challenge for me and I never thought to dance in my life and this was affecting my relationship with my wife as we all know that there are many social occasions of life which requires to perform dance. Even in the cases of marriage my wife wanted me to dance with me as my dance partner but I could not do it. This caused the gap between me and my wife many times.

First I was very scared and also a lot conscious about dancing in front of everyone. So my wife told me to watch this video and grab these some quick tips from the video of Allu Arjun to improve the dancing and I think it really helped a lot.After few days of practice I was able to learn the basic moves and was very confident on it. It was coincidence that we received a marriage card few days back and decided to turn up on the event. We reached there and as usual she asked me to dance but this time also she had perception that I would not accept it. I could see the dance floor empty and no one was bothering about it. So I thought it was just a moment I have been waiting for and before my wife could say anything I grabbed her hand and took her to the dance floor. Rest was the history as I showed her my dance moves and she was quite impressed by them. The crowd also noticed us and they started to clap and applauded my efforts.

With my dance moves, I could see people getting excited and they finally had to come on the dance floor. I am happy that performing and copying Allu steps of dance really did it work and it helped to add freshness to the atmosphere and redefine the whole situation which was very silent and dull.

This was my story of getting into a problem, facing it, and overcoming it to return to my happy life again.

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Taking Solution to Winter Skin Solutions

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With the increasing dirt and pollution nowadays it has become very difficult for the people to maintain their external looks to look great without using external industrially generated products. Also sunlight plays a devastating role in worsening the conditions as long time exposure to sunlight also causes tanning to the skin. These conditions also create a big problem for the girls who are by nature generally more conscious towards their external looks. They have to give more of their focus towards using the chemical products to protect their skin from getting tanned, use face-wash so that their skin remains dirt and oil free all through the day and also cover their arms and face while travelling in the day.

While travelling it becomes very much difficult for them as now they have to carry many things like, face wash, lip balm, sunscreen creams, and make up removal kits, etc as they have become a necessity for them.Sunscreen creams are very important to guard the skin against the intense burning rays of the skin. These help the skin from getting exposed to the sunlight which can cause burning of skin and its long exposure can also lead to tanning of the skin, i.e. the skin starts reducing its skin tone and becomes darker, this process increases with more exposure to sunlight. After being tanned people often use facial creams and fair skin creams so that their skin can become fair and white as it was before, so I suggest using sunscreen cream as prevention is better than cure.

Now using face wash is very much important as the dirt when gets accumulate over the skin mixes with the oil which is secreted by our glands to prevent the skin from getting rough, reacts and forms a by-product which helps the acne bacteria to cause damage to the skin cells and also leads to pimples on the face. The face wash helps to remove this dust and oil from the skin so as to prevent the pimples on the face.

Now, selecting face0wash is also an issue as they vary with the type of skin. So I suggest you to try the face wash which is less strong for the first use and then increase the level slowly until you find a one which works perfect on your skin.

Another very important thing is make-up removal kit which every girl while traveling should have because it helps in removing the make up from the face which is very important to further prevent allergies to the skin.

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